12 July 2009

Is Adoption an Option for you?

Picture from http://www.adoptionstepbystep.com

Last Thursday on our Chick Chat night on the CC we were talking a little bit about adoption. Carissa has two adopted twin kiddos from Korea and I had a ton of questions. Dustin and I want to have one more child on our own and maybe adopt a third. This is a conversation that we have had over and over. There is just something about being able to give one child who needs parents love that makes me think we would be a great fit. I could not imagine how hard it must be for parents to decide to give their child up but I understand that sometimes it is best for the child's sake.

I have not done a whole lot of research on the actual adoption process. I will as we get closer to the process but for now I am reading in forums and blogs about adoption stories. These stories are so inspiring. On both sides of adoptions the parents are so strong in their decisions.

With so many decisions, I have made a real good friend and educator in Carissa. She will be coming on CWC tomorrow to talk about her experience. I can not wait for you to hear her story. Please continue to follow this blog as we decide whether adoption is for us.

Have you ever thought about adopting? What questions do you have?



8 comments:

abc123vn said...

Thanks Jen! You are great as well!Cannot wait for tomorrow!

Cheryl said...

Great topic! I'm sure there will be lots of questions in the chat room!

Brian said...

I'm not sure I can handle any kids at all. I've played with my brother's daughters a lot, and they were a blast between like 1 and 2 and a half.

I still love them to death, but once they got to be three, they started getting really smart. Like I like when you can just pick them up and they automatically laugh. Now they're like, "Um, no I am playing with the zoo."

I don't think I answered your question - I guess what I need to know is if adopted kids stop again at 2.5 or so?

Banteringblonde said...

Great topic!

cassie said...

I always said if I had more kids it would be through adoption. I was not a fan of being pregnant (I was whiny)

lov said...

i've always had a place in my heart for adoption. my only problem with it is....WHY is it so hard to adopt?!?!

R. Wallis @ TrueBeauty said...

This sounds like a great book! From the time I was a child, I have always sad I would adopt, and thankfully my husband feels the same way. We are not ready at this exact moment, but in the near future we will be working through the details.

Ali said...

While I am nowhere NEAR thinking about having a child (or adopting one!), I think it is one of THE most selfless things you can do. The fact that you're considering this is proof of how wonderful you both are. Can't wait to hear what you decide!

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